Sunday, September 6, 2009

Dilemma

I have a dilemma. Perhaps the internet (i.e. the people who read my meandering thoughts) can help me solve it.

We've lived in our house for exactly 8 days now. And we've only met one of our neighbors. BRIEFLY. He was sitting out in his yard, I saw him on my way out to meet a friend, so I went over to introduce myself. We chatted about our houses for approximately 2 minutes before my ride came to get me. That's the only neighborhoody goodness we've had so far.

Now, I know that the grown-up thing to do is to know your neighbors. It's what people who own and live in houses do. You learn each other's names, chat when you see each other out in your yards, and, if you seem to get along okay, borrow a cup of sugar every now and then. But here is my question... how do neighbors get to know each other intially? Whose job is it to make the first move?

I always thought that it was the "already-live-there" folks' job to welcome the "moving-in" kids. Aren't they supposed to come over and knock to say hello? Should we wait for them to do so? Is that the correct protcol?

Or is it kosher for me and Dave to go to their houses, possibly with yummy treats in hand, to introduce ourselves to them? Is that too eager? Would we be breaking some kind of unwritten neighbor code? Would we forever be branded THOSE neighbors?

I've said it before... There really should a new-homeowners' class. I don't know how to do this business.

2 comments:

Carmen Goetschius said...

Only 8 days... they are giving you time to settle in. I would make delish muffins in a couple of weeks and bring them round.... Your house is beautiful! Enjoy making it the perfect home for you and Dave!

Jessica Jordan said...

We are in the same boat! We had the world's best neighbors on Gordy Pl. Now that we moved, we have a whole new bunch to meet. We know that we will live here for a long time, so we really want to be nieghborly, but its not super easy. We have chit-chatted with most of them. The thing to remember is that you have a long time to get to know them, so take your time. I think it is TOTALLY cool to take baked goods to them ... sadly many people of this world did not grow up with awesome neighbors so they just don't know how to be one. We have to teach them. :) Like I said, it doesn't have to be right away. We didn't really get to know our neighbors on Gordy for about 2 months, and now they are some of our best friends. Even though we have moved, we still go back to the old 'hood almost every day for the kids to play. Keep us posted.